Relationship Questions
Resolved Question: From a Muslim perspective: relationship question. What would you do? What is ‘right’? 18 May 2012, 7:30 pm
A male friend of mine asked me out a while back, and I said no for two reasons: (1) I don’t date, and (2) he punched me a few times and I got paranoid as every female in my family has been/is in an abusive relationship.He did ask if anything will ever happen, and I said no. I did like him. He is currently speaking to a girl. Our ‘relationship’ came up in terms of him asking if I ever like him, I said yes but I don’t appreciate being hit, and that I don’t want to end up like the rest of my family. He seemed annoyed, and then went on about how he’d never do that to his wife and it got weird.He is my friend (i do still sort-of like him, but he doesn’t know), I’m buying him some shirt he’s been wanting since last year, but he got all ‘oh the girl…it’s not fair for her … okay if you get it don’t tell my cousins as i don’t want them bringing it up with her if it works out’.Last time I was with him, his eyes sort of lit up when we were speaking (cheesy I know). He constantly gets all ‘if i do … for you, would you give me a kiss’. Now I don’t know what to do. I speak to everyone in his family. I can’t stop speaking to him as he’s constantly with the others. I don’t know what to do. PS if it wasn’t obvious we’re both muslim. I want to know what others would do in this situation. I NEVER go for guys in a relationship, and have always wanted to get married when I’m in my 30’s as I don’t want to have kids when I’m poor lol. Plus, he’s very ‘when I get married I’d want to get back into the religion, & my wife’s not allowed to speak to other guys unless they’re family or family friends etc.’ most of my friends are guys (because of my studies and work).Any advice would be good. I don’t know whether to bring it up properly with him, to end our friendship, or what. It’s irritating me.I should’ve made it clear, the punching thing was a joke. And the reason it made me paranoid was because it hurt, he said sorry later. Also, I’m not a masochist, nor he is sadistic.As for the going back to Islam: are you stalking me? And I have been reading back into it, so I don’t know. Maybe. That said I’m not even the slightest bit religious, I just be taking classes 
Resolved Question: Relationship question… help please.? 18 May 2012, 10:25 am
Okay so i have been my my ex for 6 months, it was a secret relationship because of age diffrence, so i cant bring him near my parents, my mom doesnt approve of the relationship but im really in love with him, and i phsically cant leave him and he cant leave me either.. but i started hanging out with another guy alot lately and i really like him and i can bring him to my parents ect..should i go with the guy im in love with, but im not supposed to be withor the guy that i can be with that i really like?:((
Resolved Question: What up with the relationship questions? 15 May 2012, 10:00 pm
I’ve been seeing a lot more relationship Q’s lately WTF……
Resolved Question: Im really hurt. Short relationship question? 14 May 2012, 7:07 pm
I know that my boyfriend is not cheating so that’s out of the queston, but lately me and my boyfriend argues a lot because of him never calling, acting like he does not want to talk, and because we will be having a convo on twitter and than all of a sudden he will stop mssg for about a hour than come back and be like im back. Today his sister was just like yall should break up and said remember the convo we had, he shook his head and agreed than he saw that I was sad about this and he just stared at me looking sad. He always tells me he loves me and when I threaten to leave him he always beg me to stay. What should I do? Why do he act this way?
Resolved Question: Relationship question…ladies, help please? 13 May 2012, 5:04 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now and we have never had sex. I mean we want to but..idk just either not ready or bad timing etc..i mean we’re young so there’s no rush. Anyway, lately we’ve been bickering a lot and just stupid stuff like that . I want more sometimes out of the relationship and I probably shouldn’t he’s a really great guy. But, what I’m wondering is, the first time you had sex with your boyfriend, did it take the relationship to the next level? Did you notice yourself closer to that person and maybe not noticing the small stupid stuff that shouldn’t bug you but do? I guess, did it better your relationship?
