Relationship Tips

Resolved Question: Relationship advice? help? 18 May 2012, 5:12 pm

I’m usually good with relationships and all that but I’m having bit of a problem. My boyfriend (let’s call him Nathan) has this ex girlfriend (let’s call her Ashley) and well, she’s obsessed with him. She recently got injured (just a sprain) and she’s been trying to talk to him like a pity party basically and he knows she’s obsessed with him because she broke up with him and wanted him back and he said no that he doesn’t like her but my thing is that now because of her sprain he’s talking to her and it’s bothering me a lot. Should I be mad about this? Like I just think that he shouldn’t talk to her because he already knows she likes him and won’t give up and it just bothers me a lot.

Resolved Question: I need lesbian relationship advice!!!? 17 May 2012, 8:52 pm

I’ve been seeing this one girl for about three months and she expressed that she wanted a relationship many times and I kept her at a distance, never committing. We would fight and break up over and over again. She is convinced that I have been playing mind games with her and she said that I have hurt her too many times and she needs me to leave her alone for good. I love her and realize now I want to be with her. What do I do? If I try to chase her that would be cruel seeing as how she wants to move on and get me out of her life. If I do nothing then she will forever think of me as this manipulative monster who “played” her. Help.

Resolved Question: I will answer anyones if they answer mine…i need simple relationship advice? 17 May 2012, 4:27 pm

I have been friends with this guy for about 4 years. We got involved and were inseperable over the summer, but things heated up a lot at the end. Then we had to go back to our different colleges out of state, and went our separate ways. We did have a fight, because I felt sort of neglected/abandoned and he just couldnt handle me accusing him of using me etc. I know now that he did care for me, but timing and distance were a challenge. I havent talked to him in 6 months and dont want him back. I kind of wish that we hadn’t heated things up at the very end last summer, because there was only one way it could go, and it would be bad. He is a dear friend and I just want things to be good when I go back (have not yet!). I have apologized for my behavior, but I had done that when we were fighting 6 months ago. I told him that I was going out on a date and that was it. The last thing he said was “we can be friends, just stop talking about it.” And I didn’t text him again, because i was dating (still am for 6 months) someone else. He said some hurtful things, but he apparently says things he doesn’t mean when he is mad. The entire 4 years i had known him prior, I had never seen him like that. Do you think that after 6 months, he will be cooled down and ready to just be friends again? I don’t want work to be tense and really, I care about him. What should I do, or say? I don’t intend on bringing up the fight unless he does.

Resolved Question: relationship advice?? please? 17 May 2012, 7:39 am

okay we’ve been dating fo r3 weeks, (best friends for 2 years) and he still has feeling for his ex and i understand that. every Time we talk about it he says im the one he loves and she needs to stop bothering us. well i was on his facebook (with his permission) and i saw a message between him and his ex. it was him saying “hey how have you been haven’t talked in a few weeks” she didn’t reply then he sends her this long message of either a dream or some sex Fantasy he had, im not sure which. anyway she didn’t reply again and hes like ” you probably think its weird lol”. she could have replies through text to him or not at all but what do you think? should i be mad or concerned because the message was from about a week ago and i haven’t said anything to him about it and its going fine and nothing else has happened really. what would you do?

Resolved Question: Am I in the wrong? (relationship advice, please)? 16 May 2012, 10:37 pm

Hello. I’ll give you the background details, ’cause sometimes it helps. We’ve been dating for 2 years, known eachother for 5. Right now in my life, i’m going through something really tough. Both of my grandparents are dying. My grandmother has cancer in the 3rd stage and my grandpa has terrible anziety and his heart can hardly take it. So i’ve been a wreck for a couple months and crying ever since. My boyfriend went to another country to visit his family, while I stayed with my grandparents to take care of them. We can’t call eachother because the country he’s in doesn’t have Verizon, but everytime he does go there, we talk on Skype. Now this is my problem…The day after he left, my grandpa had an attack and was sent to the hospital. I told him immediently because my boyfriend is my best friend, i tell him about everything. When I told him, he didn’t say much. We didn’t talk for about a day, but as the day went by I was hurting more and more. i was worried about him and my grandma. So i went for my boyfriend for comfort. He didn’t give me much. So i brushed it off, maybe he was just busy.He’s still in his country and ever since he hasn’t messaged me once, unless he needed something. He hasnt even asked how my grandparents were doing or anything. So of course, that pissed me right off. a couple night ago, he was on facebook and he messeged me about buisness again and i told him i didnt wanna hear it, my grandparents are in terrible pain. As i was telling him about my day and how they were doing(not that he asked) he just logged right out. As if he didn’t evne care. and the next day, he didnt messege me at all about it. So i yelled at him and told him off. Then he told me that i need to go to someone else with that stuff, that he doesnt need to be the one that hears it, he called me needy. Ever since that night, we havent talked. Even though he’s online, he doesnt messege me or anything.Am I wrong for being mad at him? He’s making me sound like I’m bothering him, and that he doesn’t even care. its been 8 days, and he still hasnt actually talked to me.