Relationship Tips

Resolved Question: Unsatisfied.love.relationship.sex?depression? 19 May 2012, 12:41 am

Texting. Because It’s late Me:I love youBoyfriend :I love you toMe: babyBoyfriend :yeah?Me: can I ask you something?Boyfriend:yesMe: ok could we try something new in bed…Boyfriend: I don’t know it’s up to you baby.Me: I don’t know. I was just asking.Boyfriend: yeah or no? I’m downMe: well yeah I wanna but only if you wanna.If you don’t I don’tIs there anything you wanna try?Boyfriend :it’s Up to you baby.Me: what you doing?Boyfriend : nothing Can I play the same baby?Me: yeah.Boyfriend :you sure?Me:yeah.Boyfriend :you sure sure?Me: yeah I’m sure.Boyfriend :sure sure baby?Boyfriend ????Me:yes baby I’m sure.Boyfriend:sure sure sure sure sure baby girl?Me: yes baby.Boyfriend yes yes baby?Me: yes baby.Boyfriend :lol ok I love you sexy!Me: I love you to sexy.Boyfriend: your the best =DMe: your the best:DBoyfriend : =D<3Me : :D<3<3<3boyfriend : <3<3<3 I'm going to play now lil muah.Me:k <3 muah muah muahBoyfriend : muah your the best baby girl!!!Me: your the best.Me:I love you so much!Boyfriend:I love you so much to baby girl.I have a good relationshipI have a good really good boyfriendWhy was I so unsatisfied with his answer?Maybe Because I expected More.a different. Reaction.Why wasn't He more interested? Why am I so unsatisfied with my relationship?Why am I so unsatisfied with life?I was molested at the age of 6 or 7 wouldn't. I be over it by nowWhy do I find my self asking my self these Questions? Sometimes I just wanna lay in bed, not think about anything just sleep I feel there is no point because Life will end either way.I always hind how I really Feel because I feel People will just get mad or just tell me to stop feeling this way I feel people Will stop talking To me. I haven't told my mom or dad about me being molested. I have told my boyfriendHow do I get better and just be happy with life.I have so much more to ask.... please Help THANK YOU!!!

Resolved Question: Poll: What’s your opinion on High School Relationships? 18 May 2012, 9:01 pm

I’m not one for them, actually. I mean, either you’re in a relationship because you want arm candy, or you’re seriously in love with someone who you’re going to have to eventually break up with because of college. Thoughts?@Chrissy- Well, good for you. I was merely stating my personal opinion.

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Resolved Question: From a Muslim perspective: relationship question. What would you do? What is ‘right’? 18 May 2012, 7:30 pm

A male friend of mine asked me out a while back, and I said no for two reasons: (1) I don’t date, and (2) he punched me a few times and I got paranoid as every female in my family has been/is in an abusive relationship.He did ask if anything will ever happen, and I said no. I did like him. He is currently speaking to a girl. Our ‘relationship’ came up in terms of him asking if I ever like him, I said yes but I don’t appreciate being hit, and that I don’t want to end up like the rest of my family. He seemed annoyed, and then went on about how he’d never do that to his wife and it got weird.He is my friend (i do still sort-of like him, but he doesn’t know), I’m buying him some shirt he’s been wanting since last year, but he got all ‘oh the girl…it’s not fair for her … okay if you get it don’t tell my cousins as i don’t want them bringing it up with her if it works out’.Last time I was with him, his eyes sort of lit up when we were speaking (cheesy I know). He constantly gets all ‘if i do … for you, would you give me a kiss’. Now I don’t know what to do. I speak to everyone in his family. I can’t stop speaking to him as he’s constantly with the others. I don’t know what to do. PS if it wasn’t obvious we’re both muslim. I want to know what others would do in this situation. I NEVER go for guys in a relationship, and have always wanted to get married when I’m in my 30’s as I don’t want to have kids when I’m poor lol. Plus, he’s very ‘when I get married I’d want to get back into the religion, & my wife’s not allowed to speak to other guys unless they’re family or family friends etc.’ most of my friends are guys (because of my studies and work).Any advice would be good. I don’t know whether to bring it up properly with him, to end our friendship, or what. It’s irritating me.I should’ve made it clear, the punching thing was a joke. And the reason it made me paranoid was because it hurt, he said sorry later. Also, I’m not a masochist, nor he is sadistic.As for the going back to Islam: are you stalking me? And I have been reading back into it, so I don’t know. Maybe. That said I’m not even the slightest bit religious, I just be taking classes

Resolved Question: Men and women, by withholding genuine emotional investment in your romantic relationships…? 18 May 2012, 5:34 pm

…are you wanting more to avoid being hurt or being disappointed?And don’t delude yourselves–the most successful marriages are the ones where both partners understand the need for emotional distance–that companionship is the byproduct of a selfish pursuit driven either by finances or sex. (i.e. the less you know about or appreciate the other, the better off both of you will be.)Don’t worry if you don’t understand this now–you will when you get older–if you’re lucky.